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About Oscar G.
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From simple curiosity to elaborate scene set up and planning as well as technique, gear, link, advice, opinion, facts and reference among other colleagues. Social, spiritual, romantic and emotional issues related to BDSM Bondage being my focus and specialty, but love the sensual aspects of these arts.

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15 years researching, reading, interacting, dating and playing in the BDSM lifestyle actively as a Dom, used to be sub.
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BDSM - sub- slave


Expert: Oscar G. - 10/27/2009

Question
Hello its amal
I was very much interested in becoming a slave to dominant mistress.
The problem is that i am interested in becoming a slave to my female cousin she is very pretty and her feets are very beautiful i want to worship her feets and to be dominated by her, I am also very shy in nature please tell me how to tell her or how to express to her. she is married and living alone in house. so i will be thank full if u sort out my problem

Answer
Hi Amal:

Since you have internet access, it would be better for you for people who are already in a lady that is already interested in domination , feet and  single. I really recommend looking online for ALT.com  CollarMe.com or FetLife.com to reach  to other people.

I certainly would not recommend going for the Lady you like for 2 simple reasons. One she is married, and even if alone she may not be interested in feet worshiping by anyone no into dominating anyone. And even if she was open and into it, she is a relative and could really complicate situation with family if something goes wrong. And in this case many things  can and often go wrong, specially when you have to hide and tell stories.

Being shy is not the issue as much as you stand to risk and lose a lot by approaching a  married, non-dominant, cousin. MY advice about how tell her or express it to her is DON'T. Also you live in a Muslim country and fooling around this way can get become very complicated for you. If you still insist upon this path then you have to figure out if she likes what you like (feet, dominance, etc). Because if she doesn't, there would be no point in going forward. In the case she would like it, the other 2 problem remain and I cannot give yo advice in how to do that.

You would have more fun in researching on line and contacting there that are already into what you like and very possibly available without other complications. I can only wish you luck and ask you to thread carefully. Best regards.

Oscar G.

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