AboutOscar G. Expertise From simple curiosity to elaborate scene set up and planning as well as technique, gear, link, advice, opinion, facts and reference among other colleagues.
Social, spiritual, romantic and emotional issues related to BDSM
Bondage being my focus and specialty, but love the sensual aspects of these arts.
Experience 15 years researching, reading, interacting, dating and playing in the BDSM lifestyle actively as a Dom, used to be sub.
BDSM, Bondage, gags, blindfolds, knots, ropes, restrains and roleplaying
Organizations belong to Assorted loose organizations in Southern CA
Publications N/A
Education/Credentials Engineering & Military
Awards and Honors Military and respect from my peers in the BDSM community
Question hi..possibly will have a sub female here. could you give Me some workable ideas on how to break her in and train her? thanks!
Answer Hi James:
Training and "breaking" is a relative concept. It is based on her willingness to go along with your ideas and activities and your creativity and desires (also her needs and wants too).
So whatever I could recommend you may not suit her or you necessarily. What you could do is find out your needs and wants from a submissive slave. Then from there find out her wants and needs. Then figure out how moldable she is. Because, after all, do you actually want to "break" anyone who is actually perfectly willing to follow you because they trust you? You may only need to break those with hard learning or lack of proper motivation.
Training wise, what do you want her to perform? Then gradually introduce her to the stuff you want to her to do. Either your own needs or her own fantasies. Limits are there for a reason, and usually they are the initial markers to push, bend and stretch. But not break at once nor immediately. Slow and steady wins the race. If you are pressed for ideas, there is plenty of good BDSM books in Amazon.com. You can learn something about yourself in the process, but also develop your own ideas and imagination while reading.
I hope this helps. Be well be safe and take care.
OG
