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My Dom and i were talking on the phone the other day and because W/we are trying to get me moved the subject of finances came up. And He made the remark to me that my money is now His, is this true? If it is true is there a way to protect myself, due to the fact that i am part owner of a business and i do not feel comfortable with Him having access that way.
yes you can have a contract that keeps your money as yours. And only a slave has that to worry about. As a submissive you have rights, and if a Dom says you do not...well it it time to walk and find one that is not just after your money. You need to talk with him on it and yes if he does say he wants your money was his and or control over your affairs in that manner...... RUN!
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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.
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I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.
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I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.
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I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.
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