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i have recently started the D/s lifestyle and i meet my Dom W/we both hit it off well but i have not heard from him is just control or do i need to move on

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Hi Mandy:

Depending on the time that has passed since you last talked and the intensity/quality of the interaction you had before. Real life canget in the way of dating. But also find out why the delay. If something  sounds like excuse, or instinct tell you something is wrong, bail out. Besides if you feel it is a control issue and you are not comfortable with that and dislike those types of games, be upfront or  do not play at all and leave.
Just my 2 cents.
Be well, be safe and take care.
Oscar G.

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Expertise

From simple curiosity to elaborate scene set up and planning as well as technique, gear, link, advice, opinion, facts and reference among other colleagues. Social, spiritual, romantic and emotional issues related to BDSM Bondage being my focus and specialty, but love the sensual aspects of these arts.

Experience

15 years researching, reading, interacting, dating and playing in the BDSM lifestyle actively as a Dom, used to be sub.
BDSM, Bondage, gags, blindfolds, knots, ropes, restrains and roleplaying

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Education/Credentials
Engineering & Military

Awards and Honors
Military and respect from my peers in the BDSM community

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