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About awhitecloud
Expertise
Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 15 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle.

Experience
I have been active in the community for over 18 years. I have been helping people for the last 10 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications.

Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal"

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month

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BDSM - advice

Expert: awhitecloud - 11/4/2009

Question
hi..seems to be that i am getting a girl here soon who calls herself a sub but refers to me online as master, which sounds more like something a slave would say, so im not sure which she is. so, what i am wondering is, when she arrives, what are some good ways to establish dominance first thing, up front, so she will have no doubt who is in charge. thank You!

Answer
not sure what to tell you, and as to her calling you Master...well subs use that term as well.

This is something you need to talk about before hand...and you can be on line studying up on what a good Dominate is and how they should be as well.

Thank you

awhitecloud

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