Expert: CougarDomme - 11/19/2009

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QUESTION: Hi....
I am a married lady of age 25. My husband's age is also the same. We are living in India. I am a sadist lady and my husband is a masochist. We are new to femdom but we are practicing it sharply.
We are honest to each other and we have had no sexual or femdom relationship with anyone else and we will not. We usually have femdom two days per week(2-3 hours in night), earlier we had everyday and after you advised us to have vanilla sessions too (when my husband asked questions in allexperts) we only have it for 2 fixed dates per week and one is a punishment session ehich is bit extreme, where I am free to punish him upto any pain but without hurting him(simply says I only want to give him much pain causing no permanent hurts). I am not punishing him for no reason each punishment is for the mistakes he has done. There I punish him like a mother punish her child for mistakes but here I am extreme than a mother since he is a grown man who can bear more.

I want to torture to maximum possible pain but causing no physical harm to him. We are not 24/7 femdom, we only do it during the sheduled time and there will not be any mercy during session So far I have been doing the following things on punishment sessions....
1.Caning(Cane & Belt)rely on the ass usually and put alcohol on the bleeding marks....
2.Putting "bam" in his anus....
3.Having him kneel on uncooked rice & face slapping.....
4.Biting (chest, shoulder, back) and the marks disappear after one week....
5.Putting a rubber band around his hand, pulling it and releasing it suddenly....
6.Face Sitting with half cleaned ass........

I never do CBT since i feel it is risky. And we don't like to do it.
I would like to use needles but If you can advice me the save places to apply needles.
Please suggest me all the possible methods to inflict pain to him but in a safe manner.....
He said that he surrendered to me completely and I am entitled to do anything on him but I love him truly and I don't want to cause him any serious hurt...Though it is very painful he said he will them for me and he said "I am your property, you are my owner, so you can punish me up to any extent you want, I am your slave and should accept anything you do to me". His respect and love on me made him surrender to me deeply. He is helpless during sessions since his only way of survival is begging be for mercy. We are respected couple in society and no one else knows our femdom life since it is strange to our culture....

And what are your suggestions to prevent his loud screams I am not using gag because I always want him to beg and scream. But sometimes his screams are louder than what it should be.

Looking forward to hear some severe punishment methods.....Thanks.

ANSWER: You are already a bit in the extreme and if you keep up the way you are going, he will learn to endure more than you can give. I'd suggest you visit some toy sites for ideas and devices such as www.extremerestraints.com and you should get a lot of ideas there--read the reviews to see what others are saying.
Needles are risky if you don't use sterile procedure and hepatitis is a concern in your area when you bathe with open wounds so I would be careful if I were you.

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QUESTION: I checked that website but I could not find anything expected. Already, I have been using strong painful canes, belts and wires and they are perfectly enough.
Could you suggest me some painful needles? I only use it on my husband so there will be no risk. Besides we never have sex with anyone else.
Is it ok to put hot chili souse on Penis, anus??(will they cause any serious problems??)...I put hot sauce in his anus once and he cried all the night...If it will not give him any serious harm, I will gladly use it again.
And I would like to use him as my Toilet Slave also, it is ok health wise??? I am not sure if he will accept for it but I can have him if it is not a health hazard...

Thanks

Answer
Hot sauce won't injure him permanently but it is quite severe. As long as he does not swallow feces he will be fine, swallowing urine will not harm him as it is basically inert and sterile. Use sterile needles and don't re-use them--get new ones every time.  Have fun.