Expert: ziggy ziegler - 12/5/2009

Question
I am new to the Colorado Denver area. I have been in a Dom/submissive relationship before, however it was not 24/7 since he had to leave the country 9+ months out of the year. But when he was home it was pretty much 24/7 and I loved every minute of it. That relationship ended several years ago and I put that part of my life on hold. I am now ready to focus back on that part of my life as it is a huge part of who I am at my core. I am looking for a Master to train me and take me from being the "untrained" submissive to a well trained submissive and then slave. I understand there is a big transition from submissive to slave...and do not take this lightly. I have read, researched and explored for the last 8+ years and know this is my path and where I find true strength, freedom and happiness. Please help me to find the resources to find my Master.

Answer
Greetings and thank you for your question:

Might I recommend a few things on a couple of fronts?

First here I have listed a few online sources.

Art of slavery at yahoo groups
www.fetlife.com
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/CO_INFO/

Offline resources:

Local groups; found by googling  ‘BDSM” and your city and state.  This should get you a list of local groups

There are Master and slave groups in your area called MAST groups. You can find a directory to those groups at www.mast.org I am confident they have a mast group in denver.

Just to name a few.

There are also tons of events going on around the country that are social and educationally focused. One such event for example; The Northeast Master slave conference. There are many more.

In Colorado there is  “Thunder in the mountains” this is a BDSM event but more and more events are adding master and slave classes and socials to their schedules

There is Southwest leather fest, and northwest leather celebration within your region.

One of the reasons I always recommend real time contact with others in the lifestyle is that is how you are going to meet your owner. The one line sources are great and people have met their husbands and masters on S/m Social network sites but as you know nothing takes the place of real time contact. Seeing and talking to the person in real life offers you a lot of benefits. Including the ability to see how he or she interacts with others, to include their peers.

You are seeking something very specific and someone with a specific set of skills and so it would be my wish for you to find the very best.

I hope that gives you a place to start. I wish  you the very best of luck..

Warmest regards
Slave ziggy