Expert: Lady Aryana - 2/23/2009

Question
I am a little older but have always had fantasies about submission. I have met
a man online and I am already willing to do anything for him. However, he has
told me he wants me to eat his piss and his crap. In a heated moment on the
phone I said yes, but now, besides how gross it would taste, I don't think it
would be healthy. Can you give me some advice regarding this and maybe a
way to approach with him so he will not feel betrayed by my change of heart?

Answer
Suzanne,

 Actually when you drink urine there is nothing unhealthy about it if you drink it right from his penis. As for safety issues you need to make sure there are no open sores, wounds or tears. I would also suggest you talk with him about being tested for any and all STD's. As long as you know what he has been drinking you don't have to worry. It is safe although it may taste bad *some people enjoy the taste* it is one of those acquired taste where you have to get used to it.

Lot of people actually believe that there are medical reasons to drink urine although it's a personal choice.

As for eating his feces there are alot more risk factors in which you need to take into consideration. The viruses Hepatitis A and E may also be transmitted through contact with fecal matter. Shigella, campylobacter, salmonella and E.coli are four bacteria commonly present in fecal matter. These bacteria, along with parasites like amebas and giardia, can cause severe diarrhea, abdominal pain and cramping, bloody stools, fever, nausea and vomiting.

I would suggest you approach this man and explain to him that after some thought and research you have come to understand the pro and con's of drinking urine and eating feces. I would come to terms with him. 1) Make sure he is tested and healthy 2_Shigella, campylobacter, salmonella and E.coli are four bacteria commonly present in fecal matter. These bacteria, along with parasites like amebas and giardia, can cause severe diarrhea, abdominal pain and cramping, bloody stools, fever, nausea and vomiting.

I think you need to approach him and explain to him that you have did research and learned of the pro and con's of what is to be expected when drinking urine and eating feces. First you need to make sure some things are in place 1) Make sure he is tested for any and all STD's and agrees to be checked on a regular basis. 2) When he eats you or he needs to make sure any and all meat is cook well done. Also any food such as corn, gum and other foods which the system does not digest are not in the feces if you do agree to do as told. 3) make a contract out lining limits. If he can not agree to these limits I would suggest you find someone who well. Besides kids, and animals, I would suggest you try anything at least once. There are other hard limits *these are things you will not do* For the most part this including breathe play, needles and or cutting. And anything else you feel you can not get past.

Talk with him and explain the pro's and cons of this type of play and work on coming to an agreement. Although I can not stress enough that him being and keep getting tested is something you need to make sure happens.

You can do more research if you like by typing in Google *Drinking urine or eating human feces and sharing with him what you learn..

One more thing, you might wish to talk with your family DR or if you would like I can send you a link to a kink friendly DR who might be able to help you. I also think talking to your DR offers not just medical advice, but if something happens he knows whats going on and can test and treat you with full awareness if what side affects could happen from what you consume.

Good luck

Lady Aryana