Expert: CougarDomme - 2/4/2009

Question
I recently removed my slave's collar before bed, due to neck pain and did
not attempt to replace it until later the next evening. She was ery hurt
and has chosen not to serve me currently.  She stated that I was not
ready and she could not follow me right now. She is ashamed due to my
actions, as am I. What should I do to prepair myself better and be a
stronger, more able Master? I do not wish to hurt her or cause her
discrase.

Answer
Well, she's overreacting, but the collar is a very very important symbol to many--almost like a wedding ring.  When you didn't put it on as soon as she got up the next morning, she realized that you didn't realize how much it meant to her.  She could also be ready to move on to another Master and is using it as an excuse to leave.  You are what you are and she'll either get over it or she won't.