Expert: Lady Aryana - 2/12/2009

Question
QUESTION: greetings mrs marie...
i thank you for ur useful help about fisting..
i'd also like to know about milk enema...is it safe to drink milk or other liquid from my mistress,s anus provvided she has done  a clean-up?

ANSWER: slutman,

I have some information on enema's although this has been a busy weekend for me, so give me a few more days, and I will post it for you, although with answering your question in detail..

Thank you

Slutman,

Here is some information on Enema's I hope this helps.. As for drinking anything coming from your Mistress anus I would suggest you check with a DR first. I can get you a link for kink friendly Dr's if you would like. I would hate to say it's safe and it not be. I am not a licensed Dr so I can not offer you any good advice when it comes to being medically safe.

In the mean time, here is some information on how to give an enema and what you can use for them.. Good luck

First, most regular bags can be brought at any Walmart, Kmart or pharmacy. You can also buy premixed solutions enemas as well as using either Warm soapy water, Or Cold water {suggested only as punishment as they due cramp more}

Receiving your first enema:


Most people I've talked to tell me that enemas take a certain amount of "getting used to" before they actually provide the turn-on that I've described.  So be patient.  Most folks also tell me that their first enema was not all that pleasant.  Here are some pointers to help you enjoy receiving from the very first moment.


1.  A comfortable, not too-threatening position.  On your knees and ass in the air position is probably not the best for a first enema.  I suggest that you lie on your left side, bottom leg slightly bent, top leg drawn to your chest.  This exposes the anal area and (in women) the genitals, yet it doesn't seem quite so "out there" as with your bottom in the air and your face on the pillow. An alternative position  is over-the-lap.  It's a bit more difficult to relax that way, but your partner can massage your back as the enema progresses, you can position yourself between his knees so your belly is not compressed, and it gives your partner good access to your anus without exposing you quite as thoroughly as some other positions.  In addition, many  began their interest in enemas over Mom's (or Dad's) lap, so some of the "mystique" is re-created.


2.  A well-lubricated anus.  I believe that an oil-based lubricant ought to be used for enemas, unless the nozzle or tube that you use is rubber (oils destroy rubber); K-Y and other water-based lubes tend to make the anus sore after you expel.  I also suggest "prelubricating" the anus and rectum with generous amounts of lubricant (Vaseline, cold cream).  Have Master use his finger and massage the anal area a bit with the lubricant and work some of it up inside.  Then when he inserts the nozzle in you, your anus will relax and admit it much easier.


3.  As Master begins to insert the nozzle, try to relax.  A couple deep breaths as the nozzle moves past the anal sphincter and into the rectum often helps.  If you're using a bardex, or other larger nozzle, Master should perform the insertion in several stages--first the "easy part," then let you rest for a few seconds, then slowly inserting the "bag" part of the bardex, then let you rest again before inflating the bag inside of you.


4.  When the water is turned on, mentally open yourself to receive it. Imagine your colon and rectum relaxed and accepting, ready to be filled.  I don't know why, but the main problem with enemas seems to be panic.  It may be the size of the bag, or the idea that "this is going to hurt real good," or some such thing; but if you will just relax and receive the water as it flows into you, the enema will not cause nearly as much cramping, and will probably feel OK from the very first moment.  As the cramps come (and they will, especially if you've never had an enema), massage your abdomen and do the deep breathing I recommended for the insertion process.  Don't panic. The adult colon can receive up to 4 quarts of water So don't panic.  If you feel you have to go immediately, ask Master to stop the flow for a few moments so that your colon can relax.


5.  As the enema is finished, maintain a relaxed position and attempt to hold it for a few minutes, if you can.  Try to relax yourself by letting your belly bulge out and continue to take some deep breaths from time to time. Using a small butt plug at first will help.

Notes for Master:

As we know Master has a great deal of responsibility.  He has to see that his slave/submissive enjoys (or at least tolerates) a process that is often embarrassing and unpleasant.  Your job can be much easier if you'll do the following things:


1.  As you lubricate your slave's anus:  lift her upper "cheek" until the anus is stretched open just a bit.  You should be able to see the "entry point" for your finger.  Next, put the tip of your lubricated finger against the center of your partner's "rosebud;"  gently press in.  Your finger should begin to slide in (especially if you are at the right spot). Continue to press, and let your finger enter your slave's anus slowly.  Be gentle Please.


2.  As you insert the nozzle:  follow the same instructions given above.  A properly placed nozzle does not need to be forced in.  A gentle pressure against the anal opening is all that's needed, and the nozzle should slide right in.


3.  Be sure that the bag is not hung too high (3 ft. max above your slave's anus), and that the water is very warm (you should be able to just barely hold your hand in it). Now if this is a "punishment enema" you can use cold water.


4.  Open the clamp slowly.  Don't try to give her the entire enema without stopping, and be sensitive to her needs.  I always suggest that the enema be given with her lying on her left side and you seated behind her so that you can manipulate the nozzle and the clamp that adjusts the flow.  Sometimes massaging her belly helps as the water flows in.  If she is really full of shit... just give half the bag, refill after she expells, and give her the entire bag the second time.  Always remember that this is supposed to be enjoyable for both of you, even if the "scene" you're playing is punishment, and talk her through the hard parts.  Use the clamp or a hemostat to regulate the flow so that the enema doesn't flow in too fast.  A  well-given enema can take as much as 15 minutes to inject.


5.  When the enema is all in, help her up (leave the nozzle in), and follow her into the bathroom.  Then remove the nozzle with her seated on the toilet so she can expel. Unless you used a plug.


Enema's should not be giving more then once a month as they do and can become addicting.

Mixtures of water/solutions

Caution: These are only for interesting reading. Use at your own risk.


THE ENEMA GUIDE to CLEANSING SOLUTIONS

Solution          Contents          U.S.    Comments

TAP WATER          WATER          2-qt.

SALINE (isotonic)     TABLE  SALT         4-tsp.
         WATER          2-qt.

SODA          SODIUM BICARBONATE  1/4-cu.   Useful in relieving diarrhea.
         WATER          2-qt.   Retained 5 minutes or longer.

SOAPSUDS          CASTILE SOAP        2-tbs.  Sometimes referred to as "SSE' enema.
         WATER          2-qt.   Follow with a tap water enema.

SALINE & SODA         TABLE SALT          4-tsp.
         SODIUM BICARBONATE  1/4-cu.
         WATER          2-qt.

SODA & SOAPSUDS       CASTILE SOAP        2-tbs.  A soapsuds enema is less irritating to
         SODIUM BICARBONATE  1/4-cu. expel with the addition of soda.
         WATER          2-qt.   Follow with a tap water enema.


PEROXIDE          HYDROGEN PEROXIDE   30-ml.      2-tbs.  Insert a rectal tube after 10 minutes.
         WATER          l-qt.


NOTE: The temperature of the solution on administration should be
40-50C (105'F).  The total amount of solution may be increased or
decreased as necessary, if the proportions of the contents remain
the same.


         CARMINATIVE SOLUTIONS

Solution          Contents          U.S.    Comments

EPSOM SALT        EPSOM SALT          1/4-cu.
         WATER          2-qt.


GLYCERIN & WATER  GLYCERIN          1/2-cu.   Sometimes referred to as "G & W"
         WATER          1-qt.   enema.
         - or -
         GLYCERIN          2-tbs.  Referred to as 'cup' enema.
         WATER          1/3-cu.


EPSOM SALT &      EPSOM SALT          2-tbs.  Sometimes referred to as "MGW" enema.
GLYCERIN          GLYCERIN          1/4-cu.
         WATER          1-qt.
         - or -
         EPSOM SALT          2-tbs. Dissolve Epsom salt in boiling water.
         GLYCERIN          1/4-cu.  Add glycerin and cool to 40-50C
         WATER          1/3-cu.  (105'F).
         Referred to as 1-2-3 enema.
         Double-amounts for 2-4-6 enema.

SOAPSUDS &        CASTILE SOAP        1-tbs.
GLYCERIN          GLYCERIN          1/2-cu.
         WATER          l-qt.


MILK & MOLASSES   MILK          1-cu.   Warm milk to 43.5*C (110'F).
         MOLASSES (blackstrap) 1-cu. Add molasses.
         Follow with a cleansing enema.


NOTE: The temperature of the solution on administration should be 40.50C (1050F).  The total amount of
solution may be increased or decreased as necessary, if the proportions of the contents remain the same.



         EMOLLIENT SOLUTIONS

 Solution        Contents          U.S.     COMMENTS

OIL RETENTION     MINERAL, COTTONSEED or        Retained indefinitely.
         OLIVE OIL          1-pt.    May be followed with a cleansing enema
         of soapsuds, administered with a
         colon tube.

OIL & GLYCERIN    GLYCERIN          2-tbs.  Retained 30 minutes.
         MINERAL, COTTONSEED or       May be followed with a cleansing enema
         OLIVE OIL          1-pt.   of soapsuds, administered with a
         colon tube.


FLAX BROTH        FLAXSEED          1/2-cu. Useful in relieving colon irritation
         WATER          2-qt.   or inflammation.
         Boil flaxseed in water for 20 minutes,
         strain and cool to 40.5'C (105'F).
         Administer slowly and from sufficient
         height to facilitate flow of fluid,
         tending to have a very thick
         consistency.
         Retained 10 to 20 minutes.

STARCH          CORNSTARCH          1-tsp.  Useful in relieving rectal irritation
         WATER          1-cu.   or as vehicle for medication.
         Mix cornstarch with 50-ml. (1/4-cu.)
         cold water.
         Slowly add 200-ml. (3/4-cu.) boiling
         water.
         Add medication, if any used.
         Administer slowly   with   a    small
         catheter (12-14 Fr.).
         Retained.


         ASTRINGENT SOLUTIONS


ALUM          ALUM          1/2-tsp. If not expelled after 30 minutes,
         WATER          1-pt.   siphon solution from colon with a
         rectal tube.


LEMON JUICE       LEMON JUICE(strained) 1/2-cu.
         WATER          2-qt.

NOTE: The temperature of the solution on administration should be 40.50C (1050F). The total amount of
solution may be increased or decreased as necessary, if the proportions of the contents remain the same.



         MISCELLANEOUS SOLUTIONS



 Solution        Contents          Metric          Precede with a tap water enema for
         initial cleansing.
COFFEE          COFFEE (ground)      180-ml.    2/3-cu.   Briskly boil water, add coffee and
         WATER          2000-ml.      2-qt.   stir well.
         Continue to boil mixture for 5
 Useful in relieving cold symptoms or a toxic          minutes, then remove from heat and
 headache.  When introduced through the colon,          steep 5 minutes.
 coffee does not act on the nervous system.          Strain mixture, add sufficient water
         to make 2000-ml. (2-qt.), then cool

         to 40.5'C (105'F).
         Retained 10 to 20 minutes.


HERBAL          CATNIP          1/4-cu.   Precede with a tap water enema for
         WATER          2-qt.   initial cleansing.
         Add catnip to boiling water, cover and
 Catnip is one of the most valuable herbs for          steep 15 minutes.
 use as an enema.          Strain mixture, add sufficient water
         to make 2000-ml. (2-qt.), then cool
         to 40.5'C (105'F).
         Retained 10 to 20 minutes.


HONEY          HONEY          1-tbs.  Precede with a tap water enema for
         LEMON JUICE (strained)1-tbs.  initial cleansing.
         WATER          2-qt.   Dissolve honey in water and add lemon
         juice.
         Retained 10 to 20 minutes.



COLD WATER        *(SALT)          (2-tbs.) * The saline version of this enema is useful in  WATER          3-qt.   treatment of heatstroke or heat exhaustion by alleviating body salt depletion  useful as fever reduction therapy. dehydration, in addition to fever reduction.
       Solution temperature on administration
       should be 10' to 15.5"C (50" to 600F).
       This enema must be given very slowly
       and retained for sufficient time to
       permit heat absorption from the
       colon.


NOTE: The temperature of the solution on administration should be 40.5,'C (105"F).  The total amount of
solution may be increased or decreased as necessary, If the proportions of the contents remain the same.


Actually, I like the sexy stimulation provided by a small amount of
straight glycerin. Get a 3 ounce infant enema syringe and fill it with
pure glycerin. It flows easier if you warm it a bit. Then just lie back, slip the nozzle in your horny rectal recesses and give it a squeeze. To end the urges, just use a warm water enema - the glycerin mixes very quickly with water. Here's another recipe to try:

8 ounces of warm water
2 Tablespoons of baking soda
1 Tablespoon of sugar
You'll be amazed at how it starts out feeling so innocent, but be
patient! The results are most exciting.

***


1/2 Cup Glycerine to 1 Quart of water use at dersired temperature.
For bulb infusion, 2 Tablespoons Glycerine and 1/3 Cup water.

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QUESTION: greetings mrs marie.. thank you for your detailed and comprehensive answer to enema. yet still i'd like to ask what is the safest way to give an enema.
i've learnt ths ther are different wyas, viz:
-using eneam bags as you have described.
-using syringes
-using funnel
-using a hose direct from tap for cleansing.
You haventdealt with the last three. Are they safe means for enema??

Answer
slutman,

I have tried the first two, syringes, and funnel..These are safe for enema play although I wouldn't suggest you use a hose. There is to much risk with that, as you cant control the force the water is pushed in. You risk causing problems with your bowels by the force.

The first two can be done cause they add a element of humiliation to them,, One they are slower to give, and you could be talked to dirty while your Mistress sets up the syringes and funnel.

Good luck

Mrs Marie