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greeting mrs marie....am a sub male slut and am new to bdsm...i'd like 2 get fisted anally...is that safe? is it painful? does it need training?
Hello slutman,
Getting fisted anally simply means taking it show to start with, and remember lube is your FRIEND. It is completely safe as long as you don't rush it, and use lots of lub.
Now is it painful, well define pain? Many enjoy the feeling, and there might be a little amount of pain but the over all experience is worth it.
I would suggest you start out with a small plug, then slowly work your way up to a bigger one.. Once you are able to take the bigger one without any resists then work on a fingers, slowly working until a fist.. Remember this will not happen over night, time, and patience is something you need to have when it comes to anal sex be it plugs or fist.
For safety reasons I would make sure who ever fist you wears gloves. This prevents any gems on the hand to get inside of you, not to mention if you do tear a little they are protected as you are if they have a sore on their hand. This also protects you from nails scratching you once inside. It is also much easier to clean up, simply take the glove off, and throw it away..
Like sex in general protected sex is the best, so unless you are close to the person who will be fisting you always use some form of protection.
Good luck..
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Lady Aryana
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Fem Dom relationships, Male Dom/fem slave, Master/slave relationships M/f, F/f, Long Distance relationships, Leather community, Old Guard, Victorn Lifestyle, BDSM play, Community support, Full time slavery and submission *living together, and how to adjust, protocols, and so forth. Email groups for help with finding others in your area. HOH or DD relationships. I was collared to my Master, then we married Sept 25 2003. I am no longer in a relationship with him, although as D/s has always been a part of me I am still active in looking for a relationship either DD or D/s, or simply learning more in order to help others.
Experience
I have been in long distance relationship that were D/s relationships. I have owned both male and female slaves/submissive, I have been both a real time slave, submissive, and submissive wife. I am not in a committed relationship at the moment although I am in a DD based relationship which has a very strong sense of D/s although it is NON sexual. I am not collared, and I still am always on the look for others to play with around me, and at the moment I have to male slaves who would like to submit. Simply haven't had the time or place to do that yet. I know many egroups who can offer support. I have been active in the BDSM community and a DM for play parties. I have been active for the last 22 yrs in BDSM in one way or another
Organizations
I was active in the GA community when I lived there. I belong to the local BDSM community in AL, Belong to PEP, and other BDSM clubs over the yrs.
Publications
Egroups, Blogs, Journals, And some story writings.
Education/Credentials
Have taken work shops for different BDSM events. Attended SELF given demo's, Been a DM for play parties and private and public clubs. Attending gathering of both D/s, Spanking lifestyles. I have been active in HOH and DD relationships. I was active in the leather community while living in GA. I was trained Victorian and Old Guard. I have trained both Master's and Mistress' along with slaves in the yrs I have been in BDSM.
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