Expert: Master Shadow - 2/8/2009

Question
i would like to be owned 24/7, and used as meat for my masters pleasure , but how will i go about finding a master?

Answer
Look up local bdsm clubs in your area, and see if they hold munches (Like an informal dinner), or sloshes *Meetings at nightclubs or bars in the area), and contact them about joining. Usually, you'll find other bdsm Lifestylers there who can help with questions, or in some cases point you in the right direction.

Especially ask about safe calls for the first meeting, and meet somewhere public. The same criteria goes for finding a Master as it does finding a date. You want to make sure the Guy's on the up and up, safe, and the type of Master you are seeking, as there are many types of kink interests, and you'll want to find one that closely matches what you seek in the Lifestyle.

Remember, submission is a gift that you bring. It cannot be demanded, without your approval. YOU choose whom you submit to, and even once submitted, it does NOT mean you can't decide later to leave, if things don't work out. And remember, there IS a difference between abuse and bdsm.

Best of luck in your Journey.



                                             SINcerely in Leather,
                                             Master Shadow.