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Hey.
I am looking for some tips on how to control my male slave, when he is at work. And also on how to do it.
It must however be done in a way, so his colleagues does not see it, or find out.

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I'd use a chastity device. They are wonderful for enforcing your dominance over your slave and they can be modified with 'points of intrigue' that make an erection quite painful.  The CB3000 is excellent--made of high impact polycarbonate, it allows a lot of comfort for long term wear and can be locked on and cannot be removed without the key.  A lot of wronged wives use this little device on their husbands and it's undetectable under clothes. You can find it at www.extremerestraints.com and it's traditional for your slave to buy it and put it on and give you the key.  It can be worn for months at a time and is very comfortable from what I hear.

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