Expert: CougarDomme - 3/29/2009

Question
I've done something terrible and deserve to be punished. really, truly... I am new to this and made a huge gaffe. After some research I realize that what I did was nearly unforgivable, but He has forgiven me. He has not, however, punished me. But I deserve to be punished... and I don't mean in that sensual way that usually follows an intentional challenge... I mean, I really f'd up and deserve severe punishment. Is it acceptable for me to tell Him of my shame and desire for true punishment?

Answer
You can ask and see what he says/does.  Many masters dislike to punish a slave that really likes it because it becomes a circle of disobedience that is really topping from the bottom. Your best bet is to tell him that you don't feel forgiven because there was no punishment involved.  By the way, if you LIKE punishment it can be turned into a reward.