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Expert: Lady Aryana - 3/12/2009


Question
do you have any examples of wedding vows pronouced between doms/slaves
my Mistress and I are planning a wedding and would like to get an idea on wedding vows between doms/slaves
any examples you could send or websites you could refer me to would be appreciated
thanks
PINKGIRL
WHIP WHORE

Answer
Pink,

First off let me say good luck.. Also I am sorry it has taken me so long, I have been ill and not up to my normal standards..

As for Vows, this is a well personal thing, you need to stop and decide just what you both wish to say.. How open are you going to be, will it be a lifestyle ceremony or will it just be a hint?

When my husband and I married, the JP was a dear friend of mine so when it came to our vows he was able to help us with them,,I will share those with you as well as others too..

You can find our vows at

http://www.formine.net/wedding/Ceremony.html

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/958559/collaring_ceremonies_between_dom...

Here are a few sample you can use as well..

I promise to be there when you need me, to fill your days with sunshine, to comfort you and encourage you, to be your best friend everlasting and to love you all my life with all my heart, for so long as we both shall live.

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Take this ring as a seal upon the marriage vows I have spoken, and as you wear it, may it be a reminder of how much I love you, not only on this precious day, but every single day of your life.

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I, (Groom’s/Bride’s name), take you (Bride’s/Groom’s name), to be my wife/husband, my partner in life and my one true love.

I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever. I will trust you and honor you, I will laugh with you and cry with you.

I will love you faithfully, through the best and the worst, through the difficult and the easy.

What may come I will always be there. As I have given you my hand to hold, so I give you my life to keep.

I would suggest that you sit down and talk over what it is that you would like to say on this day.. The vows you write are the most important things you will say to each other and should really come from your heart. Use what means the most to you, not what someone else has said.. Talk about what it is that makes you happy in this relationship, why and who you are in it, what you wish to become, and how you wish to get there with each others help..

I wish you all the luck in the world..Many blessings to you both.

Lady Aryana

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Fem Dom relationships, Male Dom/fem slave, Master/slave relationships M/f, F/f, Long Distance relationships, Leather community, Old Guard, Victorn Lifestyle, BDSM play, Community support, Full time slavery and submission *living together, and how to adjust, protocols, and so forth. Email groups for help with finding others in your area. HOH or DD relationships. I was collared to my Master, then we married Sept 25 2003. I am no longer in a relationship with him, although as D/s has always been a part of me I am still active in looking for a relationship either DD or D/s, or simply learning more in order to help others.

Experience

I have been in long distance relationship that were D/s relationships. I have owned both male and female slaves/submissive, I have been both a real time slave, submissive, and submissive wife. I am not in a committed relationship at the moment although I am in a DD based relationship which has a very strong sense of D/s although it is NON sexual. I am not collared, and I still am always on the look for others to play with around me, and at the moment I have to male slaves who would like to submit. Simply haven't had the time or place to do that yet. I know many egroups who can offer support. I have been active in the BDSM community and a DM for play parties. I have been active for the last 22 yrs in BDSM in one way or another

Organizations
I was active in the GA community when I lived there. I belong to the local BDSM community in AL, Belong to PEP, and other BDSM clubs over the yrs.

Publications
Egroups, Blogs, Journals, And some story writings.

Education/Credentials
Have taken work shops for different BDSM events. Attended SELF given demo's, Been a DM for play parties and private and public clubs. Attending gathering of both D/s, Spanking lifestyles. I have been active in HOH and DD relationships. I was active in the leather community while living in GA. I was trained Victorian and Old Guard. I have trained both Master's and Mistress' along with slaves in the yrs I have been in BDSM.

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