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Hi awhitecloud,
I saw your Q and A on how to keep the d/s relationship alive with a family to take care of and i thought it was very good and so i have a small but big question for you. When i was little i was brought up as some what as a slave for my dad and step mom and they got me to be there slave as in the basics rubbing feet cleaning house raising my two younger sisters that kinda thing but i was never taught proper protocol and how to set me goals for a life in this and i now i am looking for my M/s for me but sense i was never really taught everything i really don't know how to set up goals for me and my slave and i can't find any straight answers on this and i was hoping you could help me i know its all different for different people but i need to be set in the right direction if i am to be a good master i know the how To's on most just not this if you can help I'll be eternally in your debt thanks a oot for your time.
tray
what type of things do you what your girl to become? You need to set up the things you wish to train her to do and how she should do it to your liking?
Make a list of things to teach her, then go about teaching her one thing a month or changing the way in which she is doing it to fit into how you would like it done.
Goals are things hard to help you with I do not know you, and your relationship at all. But they can be life goals and how to reach different levels of training, he duties or just the plan things for you to set and work towards having and doing with her.
I hope this helped some if I can do more please let me know...I am heading out of town tonight so I will respond as soon as I can,
Thank You,
awhitecloud
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| Comment | thank you for your answer and i believe it did answer my question and i do thank you a lot. now that i know that the goals are for training her to me i can move her to please me and it was just what i needed so that you. and you are very wise and i hope you have a good trip tray | ||
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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.
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I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.
Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot
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D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com
Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.
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I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.
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