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I am in a D/s relationship where in point of reference were have reached the the level to address each other as master and slave I still prefer to be called sir and call her pet.
I prefer to give my pet tasks to perform for me that are based on mental stimulation and that border on self public humiliation rather than domestic chores IE; each day to find or buy a specific item and report to me when it is done when my shopping list is filled she will put the items together as ordered and perform a task as ordered (long rain coat high heeled slut shoes electric toy inserted and meet me for lunch wearing only these things) this has worked extremely well to help her find humility and the extent of her limits but I am having difficulty coming up with new ideas. so my question is do you have suggestions of where to find blogs or examples that others have used in the past that can be used as a reference to come up with new ideas for tasks.


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As far as blogs concerning kink go, I would try alt.com, or another site, which is a teaching and info site called Gloria-Brame.com, which is full of info regarding kink. Unfortioately, CastleRealm seems to be down, and it doesn't look good for it's return any time soon, which is a shame, as the site had much work put into it.

You might also try chatting on the alt site, get some ideas from the chatters there, who are always so full of ideas to help out :D.

Best of luck, and feel free to contact me further if you need further clarification.



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                                               Master Shadow.  

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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

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35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

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Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon.

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Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

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Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

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