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My slave and I have been together for 6 months and I feel like it is time to
start her Anal training. My last slave throughly enjoyed anal from the
beginning so I am unsure as to what kind of schedule to keep.
How quickly should I progress in sizes and how long should she keep them
in? IN your estimation how long should it take for her to able to comfortably
have anal sex? And once we reach that stage what kind of on going training
should we perform in order to maintain the progress (assuming anal sex 2-3
times a month).
As you can see I have alot of questions about the mechanics, timing and
schedule of the training. Anal sex is not used as a punishment in our
relationship and so I want to be sure to progress at a reasonable pace but not
cause her any more pain then is necessary, Anything you can offer would be
really helpful
Okay I am a sub and I can tell you how I was trained it might help who knows.
I was to wear a small on twice a day for 20 min. each time for a week then we moved to a larger size and did the same thing until we moved to the size that was most like my Sir. Then I did the 20 min twice a day for a week and moved into then wearing it for up to an hour at a time, and so on. We would have anal about once a week and I had to wear the plug every day for at least 30 min. from that time out. So that I never went down in size for him.
I hope that it helps some.
awhitecloud
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awhitecloud
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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.
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I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.
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D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com
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I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.
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I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.
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