Expert: Oscar G. - 5/24/2009

Question
My sub and I are fairly new to the lifestyle and I'm having difficulty coming up with daily tasks for her to perform to show her dedication and discipline. Basic things to let me know she's thinking of me. Such as phone calls, text, little things. Now I'm having a problem coming up with new ones that would be a little more personal, so to speak.

Answer
Hi Melkie:

I believe the best tasks and disciplines are the ones that improve self or others and  instill good habits and manners. Other than details  on her person ( preferred grooming details and  special touches) also could perhaps details and required tasks on your home or environment she should have ready for you. on in her person at all times... Could be always wearing (or not wearing) certain clothing you like,  wear certain perfume, a minimum of make up, etc. But also could be to have you bedroom in certain mood, even if you will use it or not. But stuff to enhance stuff as master/slave or Dom/Sub, the sky is the limit. You could choose anything you want accomplished by her when you come back or little things through the day. She can take pics, or prepare  herself or  follow directives as you asked in ways you can verify.

Could be stuff like receiving you in special attire,  sending you one dirty picture  per week, find a toy she things you would like. Sexy errands, and stuff that keeps her on her toes, or teaches  her something. Ask stuff that is reasonable, but you want of her as your submissive. The creative stuff just will come out of following your own fantasies and  needs, and probably hers too.  Ask and share.
I hope this bit  helps.
Be well and  be safe.