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Hi
I am in a great relationship with a guy and i love to dominate him i find the physical part pretty easy but he really enjoys mind play ie tease and denial, and playing mind games.I find it difficult to start a game. He is a very deep thinker and i want to be able to really turn on his mind can you give me any good ideas.#
Please help x

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It sounds like your sub is into what's commonly referred to as a 'mind fuck' and some of them can be very elaborate!  Not knowing him, it's going to be difficult to impossible for me to guess what kind of twist he'd enjoy but you can find out a lot about this sort of thing on the internet.  Usually the partner of someone who enjoys this sort of thing is the only one who is close enought to him to really get into his head space.  Good Luck!

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