AllExperts > BDSM 
Search      
BDSM
Volunteer
Answers to thousands of questions
 Home · More BDSM Questions · Answer Library  · Encyclopedia ·
More BDSM Answers
Question Library

Ask a question about BDSM
Volunteer
Experts of the Month
Expert Login

Awards

About Us
Tell friends
Link to Us
Disclaimer

 
 
 
 
About CougarDomme
Expertise
I can answer any question about BDSM in practice, theory or relationships

Experience
I have been in the BDSM scene for 25 years. I am a prodomme with a specialty of medical play. I give demonstrations on safe, sane and consensual play in the area of play: sounds, needle play, medical,saline infusions,sterile procedure,fisting,fire,knife and RACK edge play.

Organizations
FLOG (St.Louis) Leather and Lace (St. Louis) Amatorius (Virginia) Black Rose (DC)Wicked (Raleigh NC)

Education/Credentials
I have a Master's degree in Nursing

 
   

You are here:  Experts > People/Relationships > BDSM > BDSM > Worshipping my wife

BDSM - Worshipping my wife


Expert: CougarDomme - 5/5/2009

Question
QUESTION: Hello my mistress, i'm sorry for disturbing your majesty.
My wife is a dominant woman she wants me to worship her by massaging her feet daily and kissing them and licking her shoes and smelling them. Please mistress tell me is it normal to worship my wife like that? and please can you give me some instructions about the proper way to worship my wife?

ANSWER: If you both enjoy it then it's perfectly normal.  Each couple has to decide what works for them and it's not something I can choose for you. If you are both happy with it then it's fine.
It is highly improper for you to refer to me as "Hello my mistress" as I am not your mistress and I am not royalty.  Virtually every domme you ever come across will be offended if you refer to her as "Mistress", as it's a protocol breach and an insult to your current Mistress.

---------- FOLLOW-UP ----------

QUESTION: I'm sorry for adressing to you by saying "mistress" so forgive me please. But i don't know why you consider the word "mistress" as an insult to my wife (my current mistress). And if you give me some methods to help me worship my wife properly i will be very gratfull.
And i want to know if a submissive has the right to have more than one mistress.








Your servant Gilbert.
And please don't consider the word "servant" like an insult.  

Answer
I didn't say it was an insult, I said it was an inappropriate way to address me which it is because I'm not YOUR mistress.  Again, having NO IDEA what your wife likes and KNOWING NOTHING ABOUT HER, it's impossible for me to tell you how to worship her.  Ask HER--not me.

Ask a Question


 
User Agreement | Privacy Policy | Kids' Privacy Policy | Help
Copyright  © 2008 About, Inc. AllExperts, AllExperts.com, and About.com are registered trademarks of About, Inc. All rights reserved.