Expert: Oscar G. - 5/14/2009

Question
Not really sure how to start this, but me and my Master have been together for about 3 or 4 weeks now, and I love spending time with Him, but at the same time, it's not that interesting.

He's recently discovered a taste for the Master/pup scene, and He's very talented. There's lots of communication, so we both know exactly where we stand and I love everything He does to me, though it feels like there is something missing...

Recently, He tied me up and left me in his bedroom whilst He cooked and I kinda got really restless whilst there on my own, so I wriggled free of my binds and snuck into the living room and curled up on the sofa watching TV, something that I shouldn't do without his permission (sitting on His sofa, that is). The only thing He did was put me back in His room, just bound differently. After a few times of doing this to see how far I could push him, I got bored of testing him... I was kinda expecting a punishment or something... or was that his punishment?

That's not the real issue though, I'd like my Master to be creative in His activities and punishments, yet I don't know how to address Him on this... Plus I'd really appreciate some ideas for activities together and such...


Thanks in advanced,
- Krath

Answer
Hi At this:

At this point the expectations may be a bit different than from when you began, or you have evolved and learned a few more things or know of more advanced activities. However 3/4 weeks is not much time to get acquainted deeply, in my opinion.

However if you plan acting up tell  him you expect a follow up or proper consequences. Do you want punishment? Ask him.  Maybe he is a patient person with a very high tolerance level. DO you want more intensity, tell him. Do you want spanking of flogging or punishment? ASK HIM.  Perhaps he knew your acting up (on purpose) to push him is not what riles him, and he  was not  willing to follow your game. Ask him.

Being creative takes inspiration, time and work. And what excites one person, may bore the next one. Once again i go for... Ask!
How to bring it up? Set up a nice scene, get him in a nice mood, ask him his fantasies and what does he need to make them real (if you happen to like them also). Also in another time tell him yours and see if he react to you own ideas for  excitement and enticement.

Otherwise, I would not really believe that the communication you had before  was either effective of in depth as you said. Quantity of time and words is not the same as  quality and depth of topics. try again and delve to the issues you need to talk to him and find out if perhaps the compatibility exists or now. Maybe his style is not what you want or need, and you need to know it and he deserves to know it as not to do a disservice to either and hurt each other along the path further.
I hope this helps.
Best wishes.
Oscar G.