Expert: Master Shadow - 5/23/2009

Question
how can i find a female sub willing and wanting to play

Answer
Start by attending sloshes and munches in your area would be my first choice, depending on Your experience. Be truthful as to Your experiences in the Lifestyle, as well as to level of expertise. Many make the mistake of stating they have way more experience then They actually do, which will send most subs running, as if You cannot be truthful as to experience level, the Dom won't be truthful in other areas as well.

If You're new to the Lifestyle, state that. Many subs are also just starting out, and exploration into the Lifestyle together can be truly rewarding, as Y/you will grow together, sharing experiences.

There are also many kink chatsites, but, truth be known, You will also find a lot of fakes on chat sites, so approach with that in mind. Take Your time in actually choosing someone who is willing to wear Your collar, as many go into Collaring someone way to early in the relationship, and it usually goes to hell in a handbasket.

Best of luck in Your Journey into the Lifestyle.



                                             SINcerely in Leather,
                                             Master Shadow.