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Until fairly recently I always thought of myself as a submissive. I have been with a Dom for sometime now, who recently confessed to me that he is a switch. I have read some articles on being a top and on Spanking and such. In the last few months when I see Him I have experimented with spanking and some mild humiliation. I have come to realize that I enjoy it very much. My question is, a lot of the time we are Long Distance. I have no idea how to begin being a Domme online and by telephone. There are thousands of things out there for Men who dominate women but very little for Women who wish to Dominate men. I hope I haven't totally confused You here. If you could give me any tips about continuing this type of relationship long distance, I would greatly appreciate it. Thank You in advance for Your time. Niala
well I just finished a great book, called Female Domination by Elise Sutton, it was a great book and I checked it out of our local library even. Yes I read about thinks I am not that is how I get to understand the mindset of others.
But you would basically set up the long distance the same as you would in a mail Dom and female sub relationship. And be warned it can be a hard time in front of you. Long distance can be a lot of fun but it is a lot of work and some find it very frustrating as well.
Is there is anything more that I can help with please let me know.
awhitecloud
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awhitecloud
Expertise
Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.
Experience
I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.
Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot
Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com
Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.
Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.
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