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how long does a Master usually talk to a sub before he collars her and is there any rules what to say when he does and what can he use to coller her
a collar is like a wedding ring there is no set time in which a Dom will give one to a sub, it will happen when he feels he is ready and that is what he wants to do.
There are no rules for this at all. You need to talk with your Dom/Master if you need to know more, know what they think and feel on the subject.
Sorry I can not be more help.
awhitecloud
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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.
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I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.
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I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.
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