About Slavywavy Expertise I could answer:
D/s and M/s issues
Sensual Play
Bondage
Breast Torture
Spanking
Flogging
The psychology of submission
Safety issues
RACK
Relationship issues
How to tell someone you are into BDSM
Red flags when you meet a Dominant online
Internet safety
First meeting
Safe calls
Safe words
Limits
Fisting
Humiliation play
Infantilism
Age play
Puppy play
Collars
Aftercare
The tenets of a M/s relationship
I can't comment on:
Whips and other edgy impact toys
Needle play
Cutting
Branding (except for its symbolic value)
Scat
Asphyxiation
Edge play
Experience I have been a 24/7 slave now for more than 5 years. I live with my husband and Master. I have also been quite active in some of the communities where I lived and have played or scened quite a lot. I have helped new submissives to find their feet when entering the lifestyle countless times.
Education/Credentials Gave lectures on subspace and on being a slave. Helped in training programs by being the model and by giving my time to help organise it.
Question i have another question, i was wondering how can i slave and a master have a relationship if the rules are they can't see each other at all. only communicate by phone or e-mail. basically that is my situation and I'm collared. so its serious but I am so new to this and i don't know what to do about it. I was just wondering if there is something that i might be missing?
Answer Dearest Tonya
In short, yes you are missing a lot darling, but in one sense it might be good.
When one is new it is always good to start slow and feel the temperature of the water really cautiously. I would not recommend being collared to someone who does not want telephone contact though. I would end that, and then find a local group and start going to munches where I could meet real people. I would find a submissive with experience to help me with the first steps and the trials and tribulations of the start of this journey and I would find a protector who could help me screen potential dominants.
This scenario you describe sounds like a dead end to me though and I would gracefully bow out.
