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i have another question, i was wondering how can i slave and a master have a relationship if the rules are they can't see each other at all. only communicate by phone or e-mail. basically that is my situation and I'm collared. so its serious but I am so new to this and i don't know what to do about it. I was just wondering if there is something that i might be missing?
Dearest Tonya
In short, yes you are missing a lot darling, but in one sense it might be good.
When one is new it is always good to start slow and feel the temperature of the water really cautiously. I would not recommend being collared to someone who does not want telephone contact though. I would end that, and then find a local group and start going to munches where I could meet real people. I would find a submissive with experience to help me with the first steps and the trials and tribulations of the start of this journey and I would find a protector who could help me screen potential dominants.
This scenario you describe sounds like a dead end to me though and I would gracefully bow out.
Hope this helped you.
Lots of hugs
Slavy
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Slavywavy
Expertise
I could answer: D/s and M/s issues Sensual Play Bondage Breast Torture Spanking Flogging The psychology of submission Safety issues RACK Relationship issues How to tell someone you are into BDSM Red flags when you meet a Dominant online Internet safety First meeting Safe calls Safe words Limits Fisting Humiliation play Infantilism Age play Puppy play Collars Aftercare The tenets of a M/s relationship I can't comment on: Whips and other edgy impact toys Needle play Cutting Branding (except for its symbolic value) Scat Asphyxiation Edge play
Experience
I have been a 24/7 slave now for more than 5 years. I live with my husband and Master. I have also been quite active in some of the communities where I lived and have played or scened quite a lot. I have helped new submissives to find their feet when entering the lifestyle countless times.
Publications
Associated Content (as Bea Amor):
http://www.associatedcontent.com/user/190525/bea_amor.html
Education/Credentials
Gave lectures on subspace and on being a slave. Helped in training programs by being the model and by giving my time to help organise it.
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