Expert: arani_CsA - 6/10/2009

Question
do you know if there is a sight that we can find a movie and or DVD of a female sub being trained by two masters at once....

Answer
Hello...

I can't really recommend ANY movie or DVD as serious instruction or education regarding the BDSM lifestyle.  In my opinion, and that of most lifestylers that I know, such things are better termed pornography and intended for those who enjoy such voyeuristic pleasures.  Most such videos have no basis in fact, and are usually comprised of women being "forced" to participate in non-consensual acts that could not be performed by anyone except trained gymnasts.  

As for a submissive being "trained" by two Masters at once, I suspect you are speaking of S/m play activities.  I don't really consider such activities as true "training," but more rather a form of recreation that is shared by two or more people.  There is some conditioning involved, especially when the partners are inexperienced or have not played together often.  This might include allowing a sub to experience a form or a level of play which she has not encountered before, or instructing her as to how the Dominant wants her to respond to his usage.  But, often the Dominant is trained as much as the sub is, by learning how she responds and what forms of play arouse her to the level that he desires from her.

It's not unusual for two Dominants to go to work on a sub, either at the same time or by turns.  In my experience, it's very difficult for a sub to satisfactorally serve two Masters outside of the context of S/m play, as they will both have their own expectations of how she is to behave and what she is to do.  She will usually end up getting confused, or otherwise not being satisfied and getting what she wants out of the relationship, and go off in search of other partners.  There are exceptions to this, of course, such as the example of a married couple (both Dominants) sharing the service of a submissive.  They will usually have agreed, beforehand, on what is to be expected of her, and how her misbehaviors are to be dealt with.

The best way to learn about and experience such things is by getting involved with a BDSM group in your local area, and observing how the members interact with each other.  (You can find a listing of such groups, by state, at http://www.drkdesyre.com)  Once these people get to know and trust you, you will find yourself invited to private and public dungeons, and being able to witness the wide variety of play activities that go on there.  You can ask experienced practitioners their advice, and will find that many are eager to show you the ropes.  (No pun intended there.)

Good luck to you, and if you have any further questions, feel free to bring them to me.

arani_CsA,
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