AboutCougarDomme Expertise I can answer any question about BDSM in practice, theory or relationships
Experience I have been in the BDSM scene for 25 years. I am a prodomme with a specialty of medical play. I give demonstrations on safe, sane and consensual play in the area of play: sounds, needle play, medical,saline infusions,sterile procedure,fisting,fire,knife and RACK edge play.
Organizations FLOG (St.Louis) Leather and Lace (St. Louis) Amatorius (Virginia) Black Rose (DC)Wicked (Raleigh NC)
Education/Credentials I have a Master's degree in Nursing
Question ok so i am a learning master for my sub/slave i am working on hre being honist abought her feelings and thoughts as i /we do this i am finding out that she is wanting to be treated more like a slave but when i do this she gets upset with me and says that she wnats to still be able to do what ever she want with out any repercushens i try to talk to her and i dont get much in sight other then she wants and needs to forced it is ike she wants her it both ways do u have any thoughts on how as a learning master i can deal with this
Answer She is doing that thing called topping from the bottom. You are the Master, not her. She either does what she's told and does it the way you want it or you get rid of her. PERIOD. You are being played. She's not submissive at all--she's a bottom and views it as a sex game for the bedroom only--not for a lifestyle. She can't have it both ways and she's using it to tie you in knots--YOU are the submissive here. Sit her down and lay down the law to her--she either does as she's told or she hits the road.
