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I am a learning dom and well i am haveing som difficulty!!with my sub/wife..With the way she acts and what she says are conflicting... is there any way for me as her Dom/master to help her to be more decisive????

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Sounds to me as if she's waiting for You to TAKE the control. I would sit down with her, and find out what she expects from the relationship, bdsm wise. Often it's a simple misunderstanding.

Best of luck in Y/your Journey!

                                             SINcerely in Leather,
                                             Master Shadow.

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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

Experience

35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

Organizations
Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon.

Publications
Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

Education/Credentials
Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

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