Expert: awhitecloud - 7/1/2009

Question
Hello DarkDivah,
I am writing to you today to ask you if you could suggest some punishments that I could use over a long distance, bearing in mind that money is limited (to practically nothing) and we’re just starting out—me being the Dom and her sub. Mild humiliation (basically nothing public), pain play, things that'd make her uncomfortable, tasks she could carry out, a photo she could take, something to do on webcam (that doesn't require too much privacy) ...are all things that are OK, if you are aware of other 'areas' then please do enlighten me.

I have already made her write lines, go out with some writing on her stomach, made her nipple twist herself on webcam, made her sit in silence and limited her food intake. I have come across where one would take an old bra and use the cups of the bra to put drawing pins in and then place said cup in bra but she lacks a spare bra.

I have done some searching using the great Google and have come to little prevail so I do sincerely hope you can help.

Thanks in advance,
Hope to hear from you soon.

Answer
I will give this a try I am a sub and I think that DarkDivah, is not available at this time.

Have you tried having her kneel on some rice on the floor? It hurts really a lot and is hard to do, but you can sweep up the rice and reuse it for the next time.

Maybe to write essay's on what she has done wrong and how she can work to change so that it does not happen again?

Or maybe to kneel naked on the floor in front of a mirror and then tell you how she can try to change things that she has done.

Having to give up my time with my Dom when we where apart was the hardest thing, and it hurt me to know I had to have him take away the time with me that he loved and needed in his life.

I hope this helps just a little.  Thank you for posting the question and I am sorry it was not to the person that you intended.

awhitecloud