Question i've been interested by the use of hot candle wax latey and i just want to ask how safe is it? I mean it turns me on but can it lead to serious burns or is it just not that hot to leave any notesable marks? If you can reply to this i'd be most greatful thank you.
Answer Depends on the candles. Paraffin are best, as they burn at a lower heat than other candles. Avoid most perfumed candles. I use tea candles, usually paraffin, and small enough for single use, although I DO go through about 5 or 6 during a scene, but that's just me.
Hold the candles about three feet from the spot you intend to drip wax on, and drip, do not pour, at least until you get used to the sensation. The usual targets are vagina, ass, including the crack, nipples, stomach, and anyplace that's sensitive. You will feel this for a day or two, but the most you'll get out of it is a red mark that goes away soon, unless your skin is super sensitive.
If using on the pubic areas, either shaving the area, or using a slight amount of Vaseline will keep the wax from sticking to hairs there, unless you want the thrill of pulling pubic hairs trying to get the wax loose. I made this mistake, once.....
Hope this helps some! And remember, do NOT set yourself on fire LOL!
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