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I am wondering how I can become able to take more pain when Master is spanking me or biting me.  I feel like I should be taking a lot more than I do and was wondering if there is anything I can do to prepare myself to take more.  I would love to be able to take it until he wants to stop instead of me begging him too.  In other words is there anyway to toughen my butt up?  Thank You.

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 Time, and use will do that. The skin toughens up over time when scening, resulting in "leatherbutt", a condition where your skin will be able to take much more, as well as becoming impervious to marks (Unfortunately). You'll still get red ass, or have welts, but after a while, with many people, the marks won't stay like they use to.

 So, be patient, and ask for paddling often, and your butt should toughen up just fine. Hope this helps :)



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                                           Master Shadow.

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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

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35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

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Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

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