About Master Shadow Expertise Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.
Experience 31 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.
Organizations Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder).
Publications Alt Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".
Education/Credentials , Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.
Question What is the difference between being TRULY collard and being owned?
Answer That would depend on the individuals involved. To some, the collar, even though a nice visual reminder, is nothing more than just that. To them, their collar resides in their heart, where their gift of submission comes from, not a thing that resides upon the neck that can be removed at any time.
Still others, whom still serve with no less commitment, prefer the thrill of being forced to wear the actual collar, or more likely, the pride of being to wear a symbol of their Owners love in public.
In either event, the slave is still owned, whether or not they wear a collar, or their Dominant chooses to have them wear one.
