Expert: megan - 8/3/2009

Question
I recently met someone who wants to be forced to dress and act like a girl or sissified and anally penetrated. It seems to me people are driven to these things for different reasons but he can't verbalize his feelings around the desire.  I am at a loss for how to even go about setting up or acting out play time.  Any advice?  Forgive me novice-ness.

Answer
Hi

First let me say that you don't have to ask forgiveness for being a novice. We were all new once and most of us are still learning.

Your right people are driven to these things for different reasons. And unfortunately I'd be guessing to his.

With that said, This is going to sound crazy but it helps to think like a male in this case. You see most likely his fantasy is to be treated like or how he see's a female. My advice is to take things from the perspective of how a male views a female. He wants to feel like a female. To be wanted and revered like a female is. And I'm not saying open doors for him if you know what I mean.

Take it slow, gain trust, and experiment. In time you will find what it is that cant be described.

Megan