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i am having major jealousy issues dealing the my Master having others please him. i am still learning about the lifestyle and absolutely open to all the lessons i can learn & grow from. i haven't read much about jealousy though and curious as to how other subs deal with it.
well sometimes it is just how you look at it. Look at others serving him and you all sharing so no one has to do near as much. The other thing is it can take more then one person in our lives to allow us to meet our needs. So you each give him something and you each fill a need to be meet just in what you bring to the table.
I will be honest with you Poly is not for everyone at all and that is okay. I know personally that I enjoy it for it allows me more time for other things that I need to get done, which is serving him just as much as pleasing him sexually is. The lifestyle is about meeting each others needs.. So talk with your Master be honest with him as to what things bother you, and try to work on them.. And please look at your feeling, sometimes jealousy and being hurt are hard to see the difference.
I hope I have helped a little thanks for the question. Hang in there and if there is anything else I might be able to help you with well I would be honored to give it a try.
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| Comment | i appreciate your response and am seriously taking into consideration the last thing you said to me. you said to make sure of what feeling i was having - not to confuse jealousy and hurt. i believe you have hit the nail on the head there! well, you have definately given me food for thought. thanks for listening and thank you for sharing with me your genuine thoughts. | ||
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