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Hey CougarDomme,

my girl has asked me if i would be willing to let her handcuff me and other numerous things, i told her id think about it.

Ive woken up before with makeup on, so i have a feeling while submitted she will put her clothes on me

My main concern is that if i let her submit me she will lose her respect for me, or want to make it an every day thing.  I am a man afterall.

What do you think?

thanks john

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Both will happen. You will be feminized for her amusement and then it will move on to cuckolding. You either need to get out or live with the new dynamic. If you didn't like the idea you would have been more freaked out about waking up with the makeup on.

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