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hey megan

ive recently been discovering my kink, puppy play, and would like to start exploring that.  i am a bit hesitant to start though because i am ftm and so i dont have a bio cock/balls which seems to me a big part in puppy play.  so i guess i have a 2 part question, being trans yourself did you find it difficult to find space in the community where you werent completely fertilized yourself and 2nd if i found a space would i be able to still be treated/respected as a male puppy even though i lack male genitalia? thanks for any insight.

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Hello Mel

I think you will find that many of the same challenges of being transgender in the vanilla world are the same in the kinky world. Your going to run into people that cant get passed what is between your legs. Please don't be hesitant though. With some patience and honesty. And with safe, sane, consensual thinking you will find people who understand.  

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I am a transsexual submissive collard to a transsexual mistress. I am available to answer your bdsm questions regarding transsexuals, crossdressing, and sissy, etc. I have experience in various aspects of both online and offline relationships.

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