Expert: Mistress Violette - 9/18/2009

Question

I have been a BDSM dom for some time now but have recently entered my first relationship with an age play variant. she is new to BDSM all together but tells Me she has always secretly fantasized about serving as a prepubescent slave. I have no problem becoming a Daddy Dom and it seems as though our roles have blossomed nicely together. That said I'm going to start assigning a bed time soon and have been pondering what an appropriate bed time would be. Other sources said an appropriate bed time for a real child of that age might be as early as 8 or sooner, but that seemed like a bit easrly for anyone. I was hoping you could shed some light on the subject for me. Thank you for your time

Answer
Hello, Mitchell,

Keep in mind that the Daddy/daughter dynamic is something you do, not something you are. What would be appropriate for a real child isn't always good for an adult playing that role. I agree with you that 8 PM or before could be too early, especially if she has real world obligations such as a 9 to 5 work day. Instead of having her go to bed unusually early, pick a time that's realistic in terms of her body's needs and her schedule. Then reinforce the role by your manner of sending her to bed rather than an inconvenient bed time.

It sounds like you have a great relationship. Good luck and have fun!

Mistress Violette