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Expert: - 9/16/2009


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I have been a BDSM dom for some time now but have recently entered my first relationship with an age play variant. she is new to BDSM all together but tells Me she has always secretly fantasized about serving as a prepubescent slave. I have no problem becoming a Daddy Dom and it seems as though our roles have blossomed nicely together. That said I'm going to start assigning a bed time soon and have been pondering what an appropriate bed time would be. Other sources said an appropriate bed time for a real child of that age might be as early as 8 or sooner. I was hoping you could shed some light on the subject for me. Thank you for your time

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I would say that the bedtime needs to be at a time that fits into both of your days.  When it is kids day the bedtime is 8:30 and at times it sucks, but that is part of it as well, learning to deal with the attitudes and the mouth that might happen to arise on the child's side of things. But I would say it would need to be based off the time you guys get up and what other things you do in the evening and then find a common ground....There is nothing stopping you for sending the little one to bed at 6 pm once in a while for some fun. :-)

Thanks for the question I hope that I have helped maybe a little.

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

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I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

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Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

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D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

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I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

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I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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