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Expert: Lady Aryana - 9/8/2009


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Both Master & myself are new to the lifestyle, but we do lots of research to try to learn as much as we can about the lifestyle. I am a 24/7 live in slave, who travals on a semi-truck with Master 3-4 weeks out of the month. I love and trust Master Doc, and have his permission to ask this question. Is there any techniques and training that you could please suggest for us, knowing our circumstances. I love being a slave to Master Doc, and only wish to please him, so any advice you could give us would greatly be appreciated.           thank you Maam

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Jody,

Training comes in many flavors, just like ice cream... What I would do might not be what you and your Master would enjoy. I would say take the time to read the books.

Different Loving

S&M 101

The Loving Dominate

Screw the roses, send me the thorns

The Compleat Slave: Creating And Living An Erotic Dominant/submissive Lifestyle  by Jack Rinella and Joseph W. Bean

And for a few more check out this list of books

http://rubelpresents.com/PEMbooks/index_books.html

I would also suggest you rent if you can not buy the Story of O, read the Anne Rice Beauty Series.

Although, you need to remember, he needs to teach you what he wants to know, and what he thinks you can handle.. Anywhere from how you sit while in the truck to what you eat while you are on the road to what you wear while in the truck... It can vary from relationship to relationship, it comes down to what HE wants you to do, not what someone else thinks is what is best.

Good luck..

Sorry it has taken me so long to get back to you I have been without internet.. If I can help you with anything else I will be able to get on now.. I wish you both luck

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Fem Dom relationships, Male Dom/fem slave, Master/slave relationships M/f, F/f, Long Distance relationships, Leather community, Old Guard, Victorn Lifestyle, BDSM play, Community support, Full time slavery and submission *living together, and how to adjust, protocols, and so forth. Email groups for help with finding others in your area. HOH or DD relationships. I was collared to my Master, then we married Sept 25 2003. I am no longer in a relationship with him, although as D/s has always been a part of me I am still active in looking for a relationship either DD or D/s, or simply learning more in order to help others.

Experience

I have been in long distance relationship that were D/s relationships. I have owned both male and female slaves/submissive, I have been both a real time slave, submissive, and submissive wife. I am not in a committed relationship at the moment although I am in a DD based relationship which has a very strong sense of D/s although it is NON sexual. I am not collared, and I still am always on the look for others to play with around me, and at the moment I have to male slaves who would like to submit. Simply haven't had the time or place to do that yet. I know many egroups who can offer support. I have been active in the BDSM community and a DM for play parties. I have been active for the last 22 yrs in BDSM in one way or another

Organizations
I was active in the GA community when I lived there. I belong to the local BDSM community in AL, Belong to PEP, and other BDSM clubs over the yrs.

Publications
Egroups, Blogs, Journals, And some story writings.

Education/Credentials
Have taken work shops for different BDSM events. Attended SELF given demo's, Been a DM for play parties and private and public clubs. Attending gathering of both D/s, Spanking lifestyles. I have been active in HOH and DD relationships. I was active in the leather community while living in GA. I was trained Victorian and Old Guard. I have trained both Master's and Mistress' along with slaves in the yrs I have been in BDSM.

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