About Master Shadow Expertise Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.
Experience 31 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.
Organizations Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder).
Publications Alt Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".
Education/Credentials , Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.
Question I'd like to ask a practical, and maybe a fairly common question.
What would be an ideal place to meet a sub for on-line training?
Alt dot com seems way too commercial to me, Bondage dot com seems far more useful for general chat than contact making... most local servers offer such a limited amount of contacts that it seems almost pathetic.
I believe that a young, creative Dom like me has a lot to offer. Both sides could benefit greatly from an on-line experience. The question is - where/how does one start one like that?
Answer Alt may be commercial, but as far as their chat goes, I've not seen anything better, so it seems You may be stuck with it. Collarme's chat is too primitive, and hard to read, and Fetlife doesn't even have chat, per se. I also wouldn't recommend adult friend finders, as they use bots (Automated "Chatters" who lure customers to pay video sites), and there are entirely too many fakes on the site to warrant it for serious seeking.
