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Hi I am a Sub female, I have been a Sub for going on 5 years now but I have a new Dom and I have NOT had any pleasure sexually or mentally from a Dom for about 2 years. I was made a "Toy" for mental and physical torture by my new Dom today, I enjoy the mental mind f*ck and the physical part very much, but I wish to further his pleasure. Master is a kind man who enjoys to be played with through bitting and scratching but for me to fully please him I don't think that is enough. Am I being an over thinker or is my Dom just easy to please? If you can help I would appreciate it very much. Also if you know where the key "Dom G Spots" are please tell me because my Dom likes pain as much as I do.

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I think you need to sit down and talk with your Master and see what else there is he might like as well inform him that you are not totally satisfied in the way things in the relationship are right now.

Thanks for the question I hope that it has helped you some.

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