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I am in a F/f M/s relationship and making it official next month.
What I would like to know is how I would go about naming her. She will be my all around slave permanently which is why I am naming her and collaring her in ceremony. She will be maid as well as sex slave and slave to my every need. Do you or anyone have any suggestions for me?
Much appreciated.

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Dear Mistress Reba:

It would be far from me to tell what or which name to use. But i could at least point you to ideas or primers that  will help you into perhaps choosing the one you may arrive to and suit her. The idea would be perhaps to see both of your backgrounds and tastes that would match an find something comely that suits her. But ultimately you have the choice and desire on how to stamp her. So go for historical names if they have some power or lack of it, but it is all a question of personal reflection. Internet if full of baby name lists that show origins of names and meanings. But in more specific terms you could  chose names of character in favorite novels or related to Sade literature like Justine, Juliette, Henriette or Fanny. But in that theme of french era names i like Nicolette. Implication is SM and french maids/slaves, but still feminine and elegant.

Another source of good names are mythological sources of stories. But you have to chose the one that fits her and suits you. Another option perhaps is a culture of the past or present you like and search names from it.

Other than that, i would say choosing names is a highly personal matter and a good name is a bit reflective of the relation you seek with her and others to her in my opinion.  I hope you find what you need and want. Best wishes.

Oscar G.

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From simple curiosity to elaborate scene set up and planning as well as technique, gear, link, advice, opinion, facts and reference among other colleagues. Social, spiritual, romantic and emotional issues related to BDSM Bondage being my focus and specialty, but love the sensual aspects of these arts.

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15 years researching, reading, interacting, dating and playing in the BDSM lifestyle actively as a Dom, used to be sub.
BDSM, Bondage, gags, blindfolds, knots, ropes, restrains and roleplaying

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