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I only recently really discovered how much of the d/s - bdsm I have in me sexually and was almost in a relationship with someone as I was discovering this. He was primarily into being dominated, but also enjoyed being in control for b/d games, and generally, I am sexually submissive but enjoy dominating in many ways...emotionally I have found it very intense, but ultimately the deepest and truest love I can have with someone. Since we both flip flopped, is it possible to be primarily a submissive but also dominate and vice/versa - can the d/s relationship be defined interchangeably? Thanks very much.
yes it is as it is your relationship and it is about what works for you both and nothing more. People who switch from sub to Dom are called in fact a switch. But it is most of all about what your needs are and the best ways to meet them. Life is inside of a different kind of world and so it takes a different kind of loving. Find what works for you both and hold it dear and enjoy it.
awhitecloud
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awhitecloud
Expertise
Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.
Experience
I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.
Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot
Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com
Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.
Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.
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