Expert: Master Shadow - 10/30/2010

Question
Master Shadow,
I am a submissive that has a Master considering me for HIS collar. Master and I have known each other for a little over a year now but just started our Dom/Sub or Master/Slave relationship not too long ago. Master has already punished me for being a naughty girl and breaking HIS rules. Before he punished me he made me look him in the eyes and he said "I`m doing this because I think you`re worth training," then he proceeded to strap me. He made it worse because I put my hand down in front of my butt when he was punishing me so I got more licks. Master, has shown me nothing but care and that he wants me as HIS slave. I am ready and willing to accept Masters collar, but Master wants me to ask him for it. He didn`t say it directly to me that he wanted me to ask him but he has gave hints towards it. Master is a Sadist and Mechanist. Do you have any suggestions, about how to ask Master for his collar, sir?  

Answer
Well, to start out, buck naked, and on your knees would be a good position. Explain to Him your feelings. Then explain to Him why you are worthy to be His. Explain to Him, from the heart what you will do for Him, and how much you want His collar to grace your neck. Speak of the honor it would bring you, and the service and honor you would bring to the relationship. That is about the best way to handle these things. They are of the emotions, and should be handled as such, in my opinion.

Best of luck to you, and your soon to be (Hopefully!)Master in Y/your Journey.


                                             SINcerely in Leather,
                                             Master Shadow.