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Ok so i have been with my girl for a month and she is into the whole D/S relationship which is fine by me but i have no clue what im supposed to do as a DOM so my question to you is can you help me understand what it is all about and give me some ideas on what i could get and do as punishments?
Hello Ray,
Well you can get some good D/s information on line as well you might want to join www.fetlife.com and it is free. You can join groups and ask questions. as well you can look up like minded people in your area where you can attend munches and get together and talk and learn more about the lifestyle from.
http://www.domsub.info/main.shtml
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2010/01/domination-and-submission/
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/48851/bdsm_relationships_dominance_and_...
http://www.wizdomme.com/index.html
Here are some links and I hope that they help you.
As to punishments you can send her to a corner, spank her, have her write lines, and or write essays. Some make then kneel on rice and there are a number of things you can use. You can get more ideas from fetlife as well.
Good luck and thank you for the question I wish you both well.
awhitecloud
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Answers by Expert:
awhitecloud
Expertise
Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.
Experience
I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.
Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot
Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com
Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.
Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.
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