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QUESTION: hi
my self 27 male
sub
i wanna go to limits.
i love gettin torture by my mistress n master. as well as i love to torture my girl friend. she too enjoy dat.
i wanna ask u abt wat all possible plays in bdsm which ll not harm our future sexaul life.

what all possible in cbt.
as well as pussy and tit tortures.
how abt needle play for pussy cock n tits.
does it leaves any marks after dat?

how about candle wax for both male and female. for female on her pussy n tits. n for male on my cock. is it gonna affect my erection in future.
how to go wit fistin my ass. how long v can keep cock n tits tied up.

ANSWER: Posssible in cbt would be slapping, light to medium flogging, wax play, having cock and balls tied up NO MORE THAN 15 minutes, needle play, but watch out for the nerve that gives orgasms, do not put needles in that, fisting needs to be done slowly, stretching out the anus over about 30 minutes, and use lots of lube. Cbt should not affect errection. I will answer the rest of your questions on the next question you sent me.



         Sincerely in Leather,
         Master Shadow.

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QUESTION: wat more ideas u can give for bdsm n cbt even for pussy torcher

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Try things. If it feels good, do it. Make sure is safe to do first. If it not seem like good idea, no do it. Try many things slowly, and ask each other "is good, or bad? Sometimes, they want harder, sometimes softer, or sometimes, not do at all. You make choice, by what you find. That makes it fun, to try on each other different things.

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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

Experience

35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

Organizations
Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon.

Publications
Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

Education/Credentials
Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

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