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QUESTION: hi sir
i am bisexual guy age of 27. fit and fine. i am submissive. . i love to be. i enjoy that role. wit woman i am more dominant. but wit a male i get dominate. i love to be slave. i love to get my nipples pinched. even pined. clamped. i am big fan of cbt. is this part of bdsm. i love to get tied up. even my cock and balls. i roam around in a day while keepin my cock and balls tightly bound in rubber band. i love it. i like insertions in my anal. even spanks on my buts and cock. is it safe. i love to get tortured by candle wax. i love it wen it poured it on my nipples butts and cock. i love to get convered my cock in wax. it feels gr8. is it safe for future wen i ll b wit woman. will it affect my erections. or anythin else. even i do take poppers. how it affect now and in future. i want to know abt any other stuff which last long more dan poppers. which is safe. or some gel which ll keep my pvts on fire. suggest sumthin for woman also. plz thanking you
aakash

ANSWER: I answered this question already. Hope it helped.


         SINcerely in Leather,
         Master Shadow.

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QUESTION: dear sir
thankin you for ur rply.
which part of body we can possibly do the needle play.
even i wanna make my asshole loosen up a bit. which is the right way to do it

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Needle play for all over but face, eyes, and nerves on cock. On nipple is good, on cock and balls, good, but not too deep. Stick needle in sideways, not straight.

For loosen up asshole, use fingers, first one, then two, until over time, all fingers fit. Use lube. A lot of lube, and use time, go slow, so you not tear it. Do this for two weeks daily for 20 minutes each time.

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Can answer your BD/SM Lifestyle questions regarding flogging, caning, paddles, whips, scening, fear play, wax play, sensual knife play, humiliation, fisting, anal, violet wands, clamps, cbt, ice play, books, breathplay including blood chokes, cuffs, collars, furniture, collaring ceremonies, links, gags, toys and other items used in the lifestyle, Will not answer questions regarding medical advice in regards to the Lifestyle. I am a sadist, married to a Domme, who is also a sadist, am the owner of two, in a Leather Family, head and co owner of House of Dragon, a BDSM House, along with my wife, in a poly relationship, and enjoy the 24/7 lifestyle.

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35 Years experience in the BD/SM Lifestyle.

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Terre Haute S.I.N. Social Interaction Network (CoFounder). Co Owner of House of Dragon.

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Variations Magazine, on "Honor and Respect".

Education/Credentials
Member of The Dungeon Monitors Association, as well as The Violet Wand Guild, and life experience.

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