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I am interested in BDMS to satisfy a boyfriends want I have no expirence in it. It there a good test to find my likes and dislikes. Is there a good website for self exploration. I am unsure about it or even if I would like it. I am used to more "traditional sex". Curious and looking for info..
First off BDSM is more then sex. And there are a number of good places to learn more about it. You can join www.fetlife.com and find different groups to learn more and to find other people as well to talk with. http://www.domsub.info/main.shtml is another place you may find some answers.
You just have to try things and see if you like them or not. Take it slow and easy and if your not con something well then do not do it. This is about being safe.
Talk with him and talk a lot ask questions and find local people and get into munches as well grow and learn.
I hope that I have helped some? You can always come back and ask more questions I will try to answer all of them that I can for you.
awhitecloud
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Answers by Expert:
awhitecloud
Expertise
Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.
Experience
I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.
Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot
Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com
Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.
Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.
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