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Hi

I have been interested and have learnt more and more about bdsm since 12 (i know... blame the internet), now i reached the age of majority and am attending university in a small town. The scene here is mostly people 30+ age, according to fetlife, I feel kinda weird but i really want to get into it at the same time.

I have heard about munches but i will feel awkward if everyone is so "old" compare one 18 y o boy.

Please give me some advise thanks

P.C.

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oh no we have a lot of younger people in our local group I know that.  Please do not let age be a factor it is about so much more. age is just a number.

there are a lot of younger people, and well keep looking.  message me on fetlife I will be happy to try and help you there if i can I have the same name there.

Please keep trying, there are more out there into it and I hope that you can find others.  munches range in all ages, and never fear being the youngest there.  I know that is easier said then done.  But please get to know others, and the older ones can help you grow and allow you to learn as well.

I wish you look.

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Life questions in the area of D/s and real life relationships. I have been active in the Lifestyle for over 18 years and live it real time. Active in local munches for the last 16 years. Have practical life experiences that have brought me to a greater understanding of my self and the lifestyle. There is some part or aspect of the lifestyle in each part of my day. I am constantly thinking about something in the lifestyle. There is no part of my day that is not centered around the D/s lifestyle.

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I have been active in the community for over 19 years. I have been helping people for the last 14 years on a number of boards. And I write articles for different on line as well other D/s publications. Have a published book and am now working on the second one. Helping other as well promoting the lifestyle in a healthy, safe way is what I want to keep trying to do.

Organizations
Spokane Power Exchange. Salem OR area...Wet Spot

Publications
D/s World .... Fbot..."The Subbie Journal" www.Fetlife.com

Education/Credentials
I have finished my Master's degree and have spent a great deal of time in the fields of physiology. And I did a D/s study for my Master's thesis, and I was surprised with the out come. D/s views may not be defined but most all relationships have some aspect of them. Have a D/s book "The subbie Journal? in it's third printing.

Awards and Honors
I have several for best article of the month from D/s World.

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